Love is learned. Love requires healthy, nurturing, caring experiences with significant adults in our life. That is the value of family but, unfortunately, that is changing. For over 150,000 years people lived together. Generations of one family together in the same dwelling. Human interactions were deep, rich, present. The ratio was 4 adults to 1 child. Any one of those adults held the responsibility of educating, loving, saying no and of course, yes. That is our evolution. That is what our being, our brains, have thrived on and have come to expect.