BUT, I do believe we all have the ability to change parts of our life to reach the life we want. Often, to create a life we desire means having to improve areas that do not come natural. The basketball player working hard to create a weak handed lay-up. The student not so good at math improving their skill with extra time and effort. The person, of any age, wishing to be more social than the person they are. Each requires an insight of areas to improve and making the effort to succeed – because doing so moves you toward the life you want.